Calling all my single ladies! This is YOUR blog, made for you and your needs. I created this blog with single women over 30 in mind. We all come to a point in life where your relationship status is the main focus of other's opinions of you.
How many of my single ladies have heard the following when you tell people that you are single and over 30?:
"Time's a Tickin!"
"You better hurry up before the good ones are gone!"
"You are going to be an old single woman with cats!"
"Most women over 30 and single are damaged goods."
"Single women need to lower their standards if they are still single and over 30."
"Single women always want to go after married men!"
and my favorite phrase when you disagree with a process, or if you have an alternative opinion,
"See, that's why you're single!"
I'm here to tell you that your relationship status doesn't mean jack squat if you are unhappy. There are millions of women who are in relationships or married that have crappy boyfriends/husbands. However, just because they are in a relationship, they are viewed as a higher quality of woman because they aren't single. Even if he is abusive or toxic, as long as she has a man, her opinions and value are valid.
I'm not here to bash men, because a good one can be an asset! What I am here for is to help you with the following:
Understand that just because you are single, it doesn't mean you are worth less than those that aren't
Single ladies should stop focusing so much on when they are going to get married but focus more on improving their lives so when/if they meet the one, they are ready.
Enjoy your life by opening yourself up to new experiences for a better and much more fulfilling life.
Meet other single ladies who desire to meet up and travel or attend events with other women who are similar to them.
Encourage single ladies to grow and be a better version of themselves.
If you are a single gal, stop worrying about where is your Boaz and constantly begging on social media to notice your worth! You are a strong woman and if you feel like you aren't I am here to help you!
This is the go-to place to check out a blog for the single woman, so enjoy and have fun!
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I'm going to the Dominican Republic in August and I gotta get my health together ya'll! One thing i've opted into doing is to have a salad week! Yes a week full of salads, but not my normal struggle salad, but making some restaurant style salads where I am satisfied with my meal and not running for a burger afterwards!
It's summer and it is super hot! I didn't have a lot of daiquiri mixer left and I had to entertain a couple guests. What did I do? Improvise! I am a smoothie fanatic and I definitely was happy by my choices! It was a fresh fruity taste and fun to create!
When I tell you this is the bomb, I am not making this up!
It has a great sweet taste that hits you with a subtle hint of honey followed by a soft ginger. It was a hit at my single gal event and it was divine! You have to try it and let me know what you think!
A couple weekends back, I had the pleasure of keeping all three of my nephews and 2 of their friends for the weekend. Why? Because obviously I love pain. But seriously as "Aunt Payne" I love to get my nephews and just have a blast. Plus, If you get them hopped up on sugar they will bounce around like a pinball machine which is great when you have a big backyard. I decided to create a fun treat so that they will have a memorable time with their auntie, because times go so fast. I remember when I had to hide in the closet to eat a piece of bread because they wanted to have a piece of everything I had. Now they tell me they are too big for me to help them tie their shoes. :( Welp, what can you do? I know! Give you all this delicious recipe!
I love a refreshing cocktail! One that has spring vibes and an adult flavor. Not too heavy but just enough to get the conversation started and the memories created. This is a drink that I would serve on my patio, while playing some type of group game, like Cards Against Humanity or Charades. Whatever kick back you decide to have, why not try this refreshingly delicious drink!
love this pho soup, especially during cold winters like this. I tried it for the first time at my job. They liked to bring in specialty guest restaurants throughout the week. I like to be adventurous and thought I would give this place of pleasantries a try. I mean it had a few things I liked, cilantro, meat, lime. For some reason, I associated it with tacos al pastor. I guess due to the cilantro and lime in the mix....I don't know, shut up. Anyway, I tasted it and became instantly addicted. The flavors were amazing and so fresh, so clean! I was in heaven! I searched the internet left and right, and found a recipe that even I can do! You know, cause I'm a klutz.
P.S. Can someone tell me how to pronounce it? I'm sure it can't be Fo', can it?
Do you love Netflix movies or are a Hulu fan? Looking for your next Hulu/Netflix binge worthy show? Your binge watching Netflix queen is back with 3 shows to watch. Grab your phone and check out these latest Netflix series.
It's been a minute, but i've got the goods you need! Running out of things to binge and need some ideas? Let me share what's on my list!
Left for dead, Butler’s family deals with the fallout from their son’s grave injuries while trying to fight the corrupt police cover up of the hit and run. You find yourself rooting for the young man's family to receive justice as they are faced with public defamation of their son’s character, tons of lies, and emotional distress that threatens to destroy the Butler family.
Dennis leaves the gang behind and starts his own show on ABC. AP bio focuses on a disgraced college professor who is now subjugated to teaching high school students AP biology. However, instead of enriching these young children's minds, he chooses to focus on how to get back at an old colleague who he blames for his misfortunes. Each episode follows his insane adventures in dealing with women, being a bad teacher, and inadvertently becoming a mentor to his students who are pretty quirky themselves.
I don't have cable because it is so expensive! The bill is easily $130 a month and that's not including the channels that I actually would want to watch. Plus, I only watch about 3 channels which is Investigation Discovery, TV One, and Cartoon Network...maybe. I resort to using Netflix, Hulu, Amazon, and other tv streaming services for my means of entertainment. I always hear people asking, "What should I watch?" Well, as your tv streaming pro, I am more than qualified to answer!