Calling all my single ladies! This is YOUR blog, made for you and your needs. I created this blog with single women over 30 in mind. We all come to a point in life where your relationship status is the main focus of other's opinions of you.
If you are a single gal, stop worrying about where is your Boaz and constantly begging on social media to notice your worth! You are a strong woman and if you feel like you aren't I am here to help you!
This is the go-to place to check out a blog for the single woman, so enjoy and have fun!
Where Do You Want To Go?
How many of my single ladies have heard the following when you tell people that you are single and over 30?:
"Time's a Tickin!"
"You better hurry up before the good ones are gone!"
"You are going to be an old single woman with cats!"
"Most women over 30 and single are damaged goods."
"Single women need to lower their standards if they are still single and over 30."
"Single women always want to go after married men!"
and my favorite phrase when you disagree with a process, or if you have an alternative opinion,
"See, that's why you're single!"
I'm here to tell you that your relationship status doesn't mean jack squat if you are unhappy. There are millions of women who are in relationships or married that have crappy boyfriends/husbands. However, just because they are in a relationship, they are viewed as a higher quality of woman because they aren't single. Even if he is abusive or toxic, as long as she has a man, her opinions and value are valid.
I'm not here to bash men, because a good one can be an asset! What I am here for is to help you with the following:
Understand that just because you are single, it doesn't mean you are worth less than those that aren't
Single ladies should stop focusing so much on when they are going to get married but focus more on improving their lives so when/if they meet the one, they are ready.
Enjoy your life by opening yourself up to new experiences for a better and much more fulfilling life.
Meet other single ladies who desire to meet up and travel or attend events with other women who are similar to them.
Encourage single ladies to grow and be a better version of themselves.
Don't be too hard on yourself when it comes to finding new subjects to write about. Stressing yourself can be worse for you and could hinder the time it takes to get your writing groove back. Take a moment for yourself and try some of these ideas above. You are bound to find a new topic to discuss after you have a had a little downtime.
It is easy to do! As you sit at home watching t.v. or Youtube, you can answer questions by just moving your finger or mouse.
Because your kids, friends, and family see you at home, they seem to think that you aren't busy. They are not accustomed to you being so available, and because of this, they want you to run errands, hang out, or do parental activities. Before you know it, you started your day at 7 am, and then it's, and you've done nothing! If you allow your outside influences to high jack your time, you won't have the time to dedicate to your business and help it grow!
Social media is easy and free marketing for today's entrepreneur. Social media provides you with the ability to connect with thousands of people from all over the world. You can build your brand and promote your products without ever having to spend a dime! Whether you have Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, or Snapchat, these are great opportunities to share your brand and your brand website. Take the time to share an ongoing sale or post a blog article from your site. You could also discuss a problem with your audience while tying in how your service could resolve said issue.
Posting 3 times a day (at the right times) is the standard for keeping your profile engaging and increasing your followers. However, it can be a daunting task to run to your phone like a mad man three times a day to post your content.
But what if you miss the cut off time? What if you are late? What if you don't know what to post?
The best way bloggers get around physically posting their content is by using automated apps to publish their content.
Facebook reviews are a great way to gain social clout on the world wide web. When trying to reach out to new clientele by using the internet, it is best to have customer reviews to help "vet" your products/services.
When people are online and locating new products or businesses to frequent, they are unaware of that company's quality.
Unlike going to a store where they can feel something tangible and speak to people in person, the internet does not allow a customer to build personal relationships with the business.
For some, Instagram is a business which when taken seriously can become another source of financial security. For others, Instagram is just a fun place to connect and give others a little snippet into their lives. Regardless of your reason, many Instagrammers, Bloggers, and social media marketers have the same issue: How can they create beautiful photos without spending tons of hours and time?
One of the top reasons why people fail to launch their blogs or why their blogs fail to do well is that they do not have a solid blogging plan. All the fire is there in the beginning, but because they haven't solidified their program, their blogging falls into the hobby abyss.
If you start by writing out and visualizing your plan, you are more likely to successfully execute said plan. Also, if you write out your plan, you will always have a point of reference to refer back to especially when you begin to grow your content and audience.
I'm going to the Dominican Republic in August and I gotta get my health together ya'll! One thing i've opted into doing is to have a salad week! Yes a week full of salads, but not my normal struggle salad, but making some restaurant style salads where I am satisfied with my meal and not running for a burger afterwards!
It's summer and it is super hot! I didn't have a lot of daiquiri mixer left and I had to entertain a couple guests. What did I do? Improvise! I am a smoothie fanatic and I definitely was happy by my choices! It was a fresh fruity taste and fun to create!
When I tell you this is the bomb, I am not making this up!
It has a great sweet taste that hits you with a subtle hint of honey followed by a soft ginger. It was a hit at my single gal event and it was divine! You have to try it and let me know what you think!
A couple weekends back, I had the pleasure of keeping all three of my nephews and 2 of their friends for the weekend. Why? Because obviously I love pain. But seriously as "Aunt Payne" I love to get my nephews and just have a blast. Plus, If you get them hopped up on sugar they will bounce around like a pinball machine which is great when you have a big backyard. I decided to create a fun treat so that they will have a memorable time with their auntie, because times go so fast. I remember when I had to hide in the closet to eat a piece of bread because they wanted to have a piece of everything I had. Now they tell me they are too big for me to help them tie their shoes. :( Welp, what can you do? I know! Give you all this delicious recipe!
I love a refreshing cocktail! One that has spring vibes and an adult flavor. Not too heavy but just enough to get the conversation started and the memories created. This is a drink that I would serve on my patio, while playing some type of group game, like Cards Against Humanity or Charades. Whatever kick back you decide to have, why not try this refreshingly delicious drink!
love this pho soup, especially during cold winters like this. I tried it for the first time at my job. They liked to bring in specialty guest restaurants throughout the week. I like to be adventurous and thought I would give this place of pleasantries a try. I mean it had a few things I liked, cilantro, meat, lime. For some reason, I associated it with tacos al pastor. I guess due to the cilantro and lime in the mix....I don't know, shut up. Anyway, I tasted it and became instantly addicted. The flavors were amazing and so fresh, so clean! I was in heaven! I searched the internet left and right, and found a recipe that even I can do! You know, cause I'm a klutz.
P.S. Can someone tell me how to pronounce it? I'm sure it can't be Fo', can it?
The month of February is bringing some heavy hitting movie power for Netflix subscribers. Each month I am becoming more impressed with Netflix’s options. They are bringing to viewers movies that rival what's playing in the theaters or on television. Netflix's new movies are also bringing to the screen fresh faces such as Angely Gaviria of Always a Witch and Emmy Raver-Lampman of the Umbrella Academy.
At the age of 16, she won the Señorita Afrodescendiente pageant, which is held every year to celebrate African heritage. Colombia's well known Miss Colombia pageant has only seen two black winners since it began in 1934. Because of this, the pageant was created to showcase black Colombian pride that is often overlooked by mainstream media.
Looking for something to watch? Netflix queue dry and you have nothing to give to it? Check out a few of these binge worthy titles to add to your binge watch list.
Do you love Netflix movies or are a Hulu fan? Looking for your next Hulu/Netflix binge worthy show? Your binge watching Netflix queen is back with 3 shows to watch. Grab your phone and check out these latest Netflix series.
It's been a minute, but i've got the goods you need! Running out of things to binge and need some ideas? Let me share what's on my list!
Left for dead, Butler’s family deals with the fallout from their son’s grave injuries while trying to fight the corrupt police cover up of the hit and run. You find yourself rooting for the young man's family to receive justice as they are faced with public defamation of their son’s character, tons of lies, and emotional distress that threatens to destroy the Butler family.
Dennis leaves the gang behind and starts his own show on ABC. AP bio focuses on a disgraced college professor who is now subjugated to teaching high school students AP biology. However, instead of enriching these young children's minds, he chooses to focus on how to get back at an old colleague who he blames for his misfortunes. Each episode follows his insane adventures in dealing with women, being a bad teacher, and inadvertently becoming a mentor to his students who are pretty quirky themselves.
I don't have cable because it is so expensive! The bill is easily $130 a month and that's not including the channels that I actually would want to watch. Plus, I only watch about 3 channels which is Investigation Discovery, TV One, and Cartoon Network...maybe. I resort to using Netflix, Hulu, Amazon, and other tv streaming services for my means of entertainment. I always hear people asking, "What should I watch?" Well, as your tv streaming pro, I am more than qualified to answer!